Ten Tips on How To Be A Successful Husband.

here's a lil something for you sweetheart :))

Tip #1.Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time us men went shopping for designer pajamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

Tip #2. Use the cutest names for your wife. Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - had nicknames for his wives, ones that they loved. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.

Tip #3. Don ' t treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it ' bugs ' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does something to ' bug ' him. Don ' t treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

Tip #4. If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives - radi Allahu ' anhunn. It ' s a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.

Tip #5. Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often. Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling. Remember also those Ahadith when Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - would kiss his wife before leaving for Salah, even if he was fasting.

Tip #6. Thank her for all that she does for you. Then thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare. And sometimes the only acknowledgement she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don ' t let that be; thank her!

Tip #7. Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don ' t have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.

Tip #8. Don ' t belittle her desires. Comfort her. Sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Rasul Allah - sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam - set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah - radi Allahu ' anha - was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her, and brought her the camel.

Tip #9. Be humorous and Play games with your wife. Look at how Rasul Allah - SalAllahu alayhi wa sallam - would race his wife Aisha - radi Allahu ' anha - in the desert. When was the last time we did something like that?

Tip #10. Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger - SalAllahu alayhi wa sallam: "The best of you are those who treat their families the best. And I am the best amongst you to my family." Try to be the best! And Allah knows best.

Tagged by Sean Iqa...hehe..:P

1)THREE NAMES IN YOUR INBOX CELLPHONE? 

Dya Cayunk,Rayhah,Yein

2)YOUR MAIN RINGTONE? 

Aozora no namida- japanese artist 

3)WHAT U DID AT 12 LAST NIGHT? 

chatting,webcamming,blogging..missing my schweetheart.. 

4)WHO WAS THE LAST PERSON U WENT OUT WITH? WHERE? 

me bro syafiq..went to syed badaruddin clinic.. 

5)THE COLOR OF THE T'SHIRT YOU'RE WEARING NOW AND WHAT DOES IT SAY? black..everobody loves switzerland..with full of sperms and map of swiss..hehe.. 

6)THE LAST THING U DID? 

answer the previous question 

7) 3 OF YOUR EVERYDAY FAVORITE ITEMS?

my macbook,handphones, astro channels..hehe..

 

8)THE COLOR OF YOUR BEDROOM? 

brownish yellow...

9)HOW MUCH MONEY IN YOUR WALLET NOW? 

Rm 161.40..T&T dollar 105,Swiss franken 20,dalawampung piso 20,Egyptian pound 66.50,UAE dirham 10,Indian rupees 5... 

10)HOW'S LIFE?

great,fantastic,fabolous,starlicous and glamorous..hehe 

11)YOUR FAVORITE CITY? 

london n paris..2 of the best city in the world..hehe 

12)WHAT WILL U DO NEXT WEEKEND?

kerja...kerja...kerja...hehe.. 

13)WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME U SAW UR MOM? 

mak 15 Mac 2001..umi baru je td 18 july 2008..love both of you.. 

14)WHERE IS SHE NOW? 

mak passed away...umi dlm bilik ngn ayah...:))

15)WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU TALKED TO YOUR PARENTS?

malam tadi..18 july 2008..

16)WHO IS THE LAST PERSON THAT TEXTED U?

Dya cayunk...mmmuuaahhs...love u so much..:)) 

17)WHERE DID U HAVE UR DINNER LAST NIGHT? 

nasi minyak at home...ayah ngn umi masak..

18)THE LAST SURPRISE YOU GOT? 

the black i love grls t-shirt...hehe

19)LAST THING U BORROWED FROM UR FRIENDS?

thumbdrive..   

21)WHO IS UR BF/GF OR HUSBAND/WIFE? 

nuraina mardhiah binti nordin..mmuuaahhs...:))

22)WHAT DO YOU FEEL NOW? 

tired travelling..

23)WANNA SHARE WITH WHO? 

everybody..  

24)WHO KNOWS UR SECRET?

nobody..x panggil secret laa kan..

25)DO THEY KEEP UR SECRET?

don't know..

27)ARE U ANGRY WITH SOMEONE? 

no

28)WHAT DO YOU ORDER AT MCD? 

one set of double cheese burger with soya bean..mmuuuahh..i'm loving it..:))

29)THE LAST TIME YOU FELT SO SAD? 

last few days 

30)WHAT IS UR WISH FOR TOMORROW? 

happy day and hopefully my life will be blessed by Him everyday...

sorry..sorry..sorry!!

sayang... sorry for the way i am...sorry for the way i act..sorry for all the things happen...sorry for all the things that i make u sad...sorry for all the things that i make you cry...sorry if i was being rude..sorry if i am not perfert..sorry if i was misbehaved..sorry if i was impolite..sorry for the fact that i am sofi...sorry for everything..i'll try to be the best for you..insyaallah..the fact that i am just a normal human being that always make mistakes..remind me if i did..love u so much!!

I wish...I wish..I wish...

I wish I could be
the face you see
when you close your eyes and sleep

I wish I were the photo in your frame
and that my name
was the song you'd always sing

I wish I had the shoulder
you would cry on 
when things don't go your way

I wish I could tell you 
how I'm feeling
well, maybe some day

I wish I could be 
the one you would run to
when your life won't treat you right

I wish I could be
the one you would want to
be with for the rest of your life

I wish that I could
hold you close
be the one you need the most

I wish I could
I wish I could
I wish I could be with you

I wish you would 
wrap your arms around me
whisper 'how ya doin?'
in my ear

Sometimes 
these nights get lonely
how I wish that you were here

I wish that I could 
hold your hand
try to make you understand

That meeting you
turned my life around
I never knew what I would found
'til now

I wish I was a chapter
in your life story
the one without an end
living happily ever after
wanna be your closest friend

Wanna love that's true
eternally
wish I meant to you
what you mean to me

I wish I could be
what's on your mind
when all you do is smile

I wish that we could dance the night away
under moonlight

I wish I may
I wish I might
some day

I wish I could
I wish I could
Be with you 

Forever

Tagged by Peng!!...huhu..

5 benda dalam beg 

1.charger camera
2.charger phone
3.Ipod
4.perfume
5.sampah sarap..receipt and so on...


5 benda dalam dompet

1. money...money..
2. bank cards..of course
3. IC and licence..
4. credit cards...
5. picture of us..mmuuahhs..

5 benda favourite dalam bilik

1. tilamku yg empuk..
2. mirror..mirror on the wall..hehe..
3. bantalku yg besh..
4. blanketku yg wangi...
5. shirt with the smell of salvatore ferragamo...mmuuaahhss...:))

5 perkara yang ingin lakukan

1. i wanna spend the rest of my life with Dya schweet...
2. i wanna have a lot of money without working soooo hard...
3. i wanna have a sport car..
4. i wanna have big house...
5. i wanna get engaged and married...amiinnn

5 perkara yang sedang dilakukan

1. thinking wat to write...
2. blogging and chatting...
3. thinking of my future..
4. webcamming..
5. watching tv...

5 people I want to tag

1. Dya Cayunk
2. Chami
3. Ika
4. Yen
5. Aflin Shauki...hehe lucky enough if he reply...haha

A month full of joy and happiness...:))

Friday,20th june 2008

--------------------------

• Holy Friday...still in Trg..tomorrow is the big day..huhu..after friday prayer around 3p.m departed from Trg..straight away to KL..its gonna be 4 hours non stop driving..huhu..letey...letey...stop at Temerloh jap..makan2..solat jap then continue drive to Putra Heigth...Pok Cik's crib..huhu..
• Arrived Putra Height around 10 p.m after lost somewhere on the SPRINT highway...haha...a bit confuse and mislead my way to Shah Alam exit..Putra Height suppose to be at HICOM exit...huhu...gua benci kesesasatan..tp gua cool...:))..wekk..
  
• Yeaaayyy PS2 winning eleven..slept around 3a.m gossiping and gaming with Peyok and Pok Cik...:P

Saturday,21st june 2008

-----------------------------

• 10a.m..white daisy..finally found it..hehe..led my way to LCCT..arrived there half past one...lame gak gue menunggu kat c2..hehe..finally..around 4 p.m...schweet lovely awek cun with pinky red blouse arrived..hehe..happy..happy..white daisy for you..her favourite flower...fetched her straight away to Ayer Molek,Malacca..
• Huhu...gabra gak sposen...gonna meet her parents...plan to stay at Hafizal house at Tangga Batu..
• Met Ibu Yati...such a lovely and very kind Ibu in the whole world..very sporting..hehe..Pakcik Nordin dah kluar...x sempat jumpe..
• Kak Ngah ajak kluar ngn Dya ngn arman skali..cruising Malacca river then had a supper at windmill...had a tasty fish and chips there..nyum...nyumm..:))

schweet...:))

cruising Malacca river..:p

supper @ windmill

fish n chips..nyum..nyum...:))

• its raining heavily...went back home without met mr.nordin yet..ngeh..ngeh..

Sunday,22nd june 2008

----------------------------

• early in the morning..hehe..first time met mr.nordin..met him at surau.."sofi ekk"..."a'a ya pakcik"...first dialogue with him...look like garang..but sempoi..haha...cuak gak kan..sposen je..
• then follow ibu yati,mr.nordin,dya and kak ngah pg pasar...kene interbiu mase dlm kete..hehe..gue cool..ngeh..ngeh...:)..jawab shume soalan ngn muke sposen...haha..
• tolong beli lauk...ibu's gonna cook asam pedas...i like it..huhu..:))
• went to kak long's house..dya met baby haffy...and kak long just interview me..haha...jawab ngn muke sposen lagi...hehe..wekk..:p

baby Haffy..cak..:))

• solat zohor there before went for a movie..today's movie is gonna be the happening..the worst ever knight shaylaman movie..haha..tergantung laa cter die...:(
  
• we went to pantai klebang...hehe..pantai yg gue suke laa kat malacca ni..tp tu dulu laa...skunk pantai dah tak lawa..kene tambak..anyway...besh jugak..:)

say cheese..:)

Monday,23rd june 2008

----------------------------

• went to maybank,dya set her maybank card so that it can be used internationally..wekk..:)..buat kat atm je laa..hehe..
• fisio..yeaayy..chaiyok..chaiyok..

mmmuuaaahh...:p

• Sushi king with dya..yeayy..suke2..calpis soda satu...hmm..besh..besh..:)
• That night,went for incredible hulk with the whole family...serius besh gle ahh ding dong..
• Then singgah Paya Dalam...just ate roti bakar...dya with her fav. mee kungfu...x abesh pon..wekk..:p 

Tuesday,24th june 2008

-----------------------------

• Again with fisio...chaiyok...hehe..:)
• Then went to kak long's house...kak long takde umah...tumpang solat zohor jap..

with husna..

• Movie...made of honour...ok laa...not bad...:)

• then,dinner with the whole family..asam pedas mona yg besh..hehe..3 kali gak laa aku pg kedai tuh..haha...planning to bring my family there..huahua..

Wednesday,25th june 2008

--------------------------------

• Went to stadhuys at bandar hilir...nice views....interesting place to visit...jom cuti2 malacca..huhu..

• enjoy coconut milk shake yg besh kat pantai klebang...love it..:)

Thursday,26th june 2008

------------------------------

• watched Sepi...kabir baktiya movie...nice...dya nearly cried..haha...no laa jk...wekk..:P
• met fiffy n fauzul...fauzul yg klaka ding dong..haha..
• then went for dinner ikan bakar at umai..besh..the whole family was there except kak long..
• went to malacca central...fauzul went back to kl..

Friday,27th june 2008

---------------------------

• Fetched kak long and her daughters to ibu's house..
• Friday prayer...followed abg zam to nearby mosque...
• went for lunch with dya...double cheese burger...yeeaayyyy..
• Jonker Walk with ibu n dya...besh..nice place...cam petaling street kot skit2...tp lagi besh...ps cam horror je..kalau x beli kene ugut...ntah ape2 kan...tp Jonker Walk kind of cool and tenang...sempoi...layan...hehe..

Saturday,28th june 2008

------------------------------

• A week in Malacca...the best ever week in my life...mmmuuuaahhh..
• Went for dya's cousin wedding..gempak gak sposen die nye wedding..
• Dinner asam pedas mona..yeaayy..hehe

Sunday,29th june 2008

----------------------------

• Breakfast with dya,ibu n mr.nordin..roti canai onne...:)..
• A visit to Terengganu...ngeh..ngeh...ibu n mr.nordin hantar kitorang sampai jasin..
• Then we led our way to Trg via Segamat...departed from Malacca around 9 a.m..arrive my home around 2.30p.m...
• Lunch with mr.samsudin n umi...dya had been interviewed by them...haha..cool..releks..jgn debar2 k..diorang ok..

Monday,30th june 2008

-----------------------------

• had breakfast nasi dagang then straight away to Taman Tamadun Islam...beautiful masjid kristal..huhu
• Taman Tamadun Islam provides a unique view of 21 great mosques that reminisce the rise of Islam all over the world.

clicks..:)

Kubbah As-Sakhrah,Jurusalem

• Noon...drived to perhentian island jetty at kuala besut...huhu perhentian...yeaayyy...mmg cantik gile ahhh ding dong...

mmmuuaahhh..:)

• Its a must to go to this island when u visit Terengganu...seriously I tell u...its worth a penny...rest ur mind...peace!!

wekk..:P

dya schweet..love you..:))

Wednesday,2nd july 2008

-------------------------------

• visited my aunt and dya had been interviewed by her...haha..kene interview je kan datang trg..:)
• went to mok han's house..sleep over there after sent dya to her friend's fida..

Thursday,3rd july 2008

----------------------------

• breakfast with dya and her TKC friend fida..nasi minyak..nyum..nyum..
• went back to malacca..yuppee...a nice safe and interesting visit to trg..alhamdulillah..insyaallah..amin...smue restu..hehe..:))
• borong keropok lekor and otw singgah kl..
• met aisha..teka gurl at kota damansara..dinner nasi kukus sri kelantan yg besh...
• met her TKC friends shana and parem at NZ wangsamaju..borak2 until 2a.m..
• went back to malacca.. rest jap kat hentian pedas-linggi..hehe..arrived home around 4.30 a.m..huhu

Friday,4th july 2008

-------------------------

• breakfast with her family...
• went for friday prayer..bonceng mr.nordin...all the the way to mosque...interviewed..interviewed...hehe...
• went to tesco..teman dya shopping barang...waa dah nak balik palembang...!!
• asam pedas...besh..besh...kat sini..mane ekk..aa Teluk Mas..besh sikit laa drpd asam pedas Mona tu...tp gue tau pegi asam pedas Mona je..tak tau laa Teluk Mas...:))

• went to Jonker Walk with ibu and dya...huhu...shopping..shopping...

Saturday,5th july 2008

---------------------------

• Dya refused to follow her parents to Singapore..went for a wedding..then she followed me to KL...
• KL..planned to play futsal after helping shuda pindah kolej UKM..dya helped shuda angkut2 barang then moved to kolej ke 2 UKM...
• dropped dya at shana's at wangsamelawati...she slpt over there with parem n shana...
• went back to shah alam...waa...futsal cancelled..ape diorang nih...orang dah semangat gle nak main...hehe..ps2 gaming until 3a.m...

Sunday,6th july 2008

-------------------------

• fetched dya at shana's...sesat jap kat wangsamaju..haha..
• went back to malacca..tolak dlm kul 9.30 a.m...had breakfast at hentian seremban..
• arrived malacca around noon..singgah dataran pahlawan..shopping..hehe
• arrived home..in the evening went to hospital with her parents...visit her uncles that had cancer..god bless them!!

Monday,7th july 2008

---------------------------

• waaa....marine liquified gas tanker course kat ALAM..
• Dya's flight to Palembang this afternoon..nak hantar...sedey..sedey...
• jumpe kat depan rumah je..shayang u..love u...miss u always...the best ever holiday with u..mmuuahhhs...

Monday,7th july 2008-Friday,11th july 2008

-----------------------------------------------------

• MLGT course at ALAM..

Friday,11th july 2008

-------------------------

• Finished with the course...
• Drove back to Putra Height..
• 8p.m sport planet subang..futsal with canon staff..pok cik's friends...
• 2 a.m fetched sumi n cherah..on sunday we planned to safri's wedding at Selesa Hillhomes at Bukit Tinggi...

Saturday,12th july 2008

-----------------------------

• went to midvalley with peyok and cherah...
• window shopping...huhu...futsal with exsemesdian...love u all!!

  

huhu...update...update...!!

Nearly a month without updating..wooo...such a long tyme woo...haha...life ku yg sungguh bzzz....bzzz lah sangat...haha...hmm...many things happen in this one month...many schweet things..mmmuuuaahhh..schweet sgt2..trip to malacca...trip to trg..italy and portugal yg tewas..netherland as well..and a lucky winning of spain..wekk..nasib je tu..hehe...i'll update it soon...update...update...chaiyok!! :)